Suzie : Welcome to sharing my truth with Mel and Suzie, the uncensored version where we bear it all.

Mel: We do.

Suzie : 1234 hello, everyone, and welcome back to sharing. Sharing My Truth Pod, you're here with Mel and Suzie, and we are here to say, follow this podcast every day, actually every Wednesday, because that's when we come out with episodes. And you can do that by subscribing to this podcast. You can go to all of our socials at sharing my truth pod and go to our website, sharingmytruth.com. you can leave us a voicemail, snail mail. You can leave us an voicemail, which someone did, and we are going to read it today. Hey, babe.

Mel: Hello, darlingen.

Suzie : How are you?

Mel: I'm very good, thanks.

Suzie : Um, I love that you're always good. You're always positive. You're always gorgeous. You got your hair done today?

Mel: I did.

Suzie : Stunning. Stunning.

Mel: The summer.

Suzie : Yeah. I love that it's kind of rainy and ****. Must remind you of the homeland.

Mel: It does. And only about 40,000 people have said that to me today.

Suzie : Really? Oh, that's so funny. I try to just be like everyone else, but that's.

Mel: That's fine. Yeah, I'm used to it.

Suzie : So we did get a little message from one of our followers, listeners. We get a lot of messages from you guys, but some of them are so some of them are easier to talk about in this kind of setting, and some of them are not. So this one is more about relationships.

Mel: Yes.

Suzie : So it's not as deep and dirty and dark and everything, like.

Mel: Exactly. Which sometimes it can be a little, you know.

Suzie : So obviously, if you have any other kind of relationship stories, dating questions, anything like that, you guys can always ask us. We all talk about it, and you guys can always reply about it. If you guys also agree with us or don't, you guys can let us know, too, about what we're about to say with this.

Mel: Yeah. And I think he just add this person wrote into us, he's a man and he wants a female point of view.

Suzie : Yeah.

Mel: So that's logical.

Suzie : Very logical.

Mel: Ask two women.

Suzie : And we thank you for writing in, for asking us. We are. We are hopefully going to be helpful, and we hope you also have a sense of humor about it because this isn't a serious podcast. Like, let's be honest, we're gonna have a little fun.

Mel: Yeah. We have to caveat that we're not professionals. We're just two women. That's the sum total of our, you know, professional capacity in this advice.

Suzie : 100%. Yeah. Okay. So I'm gonna read it out and then we'll have a chat. So he says. In a nutshell, here's what's bothering me. My girlfriend can beat me up. Not that she will do it, but she has already done it. For the past six months, we have been taking beginner judo lessons together. On the last week of our classes, our instructor allowed us to have challenge matches. Since we are the only couple, everyone in class suggested me and my girlfriend have a match. We did, and within a minute I was sent flying by her with a judo throw I never saw coming. I'll admit that my pride was hurt, that my proud, that my pride was hurt the most. My male ego got the best of me. Not to mention she is very petite. I managed to congratulate her, but Washington seething inside and all the way home note, her and I live together. The ride home was silent, but as soon as we entered our house, I blurted out that I felt she got lucky and that I was holding back since I did not want to hurt her. I guess that was a big mistake. And she asked if I wanted to rematch right there and now. At first I said no, but after she said, I didn't think you would, I changed my mind. We put on our judo outfits back on, rearrange some furniture, put some cushions and yoga mats on the floor for a rematch. I'm just imagining this as well, right? In a matter of seconds this time I was flat on my back only to pop up and immediately get thrown again. While hearing her say, had enough? If persistence could could overcome stupidity, I got up once more. Again she started another judo maneuver, but stopped midway when my right arm was secured underneath her grasp, the weight of my body resting perilously. Perilous.

Mel: Perilously, thank you.

Suzie : Perilously on her hip, ready to somersault onto the floor, both of my feet off the ground, I finally uttered a feeble enough. I'm proud of her abilities. I'm glad she will be able to protect herself. But I'm so embarrassed. About what? About my sad performance. Am I just being jealously unfair? I know time will pass and it will fade in memory, but will it? I don't want this to come between us. Sincerely, anonymous oh ps. Now she wants us to take the next judo class, the advanced one. But I'm a bit skittish to say the least. Maybe I should retake the beginner class, I don't know. Okay, I'm sorry I'm laughing, but this is kind of a funny situation. You can't read this and not have a little bit of a sense of humor about it.

Mel: No, and I. Yeah, 100%. And there's a lot of things going on here is, like, obviously male ego, but I also kind of think, like, this girlfriend, like. Like, why do you want to make him squirm? I mean, you can see he's, like, embarrassed and uncomfortable, and you're, like, driving a knife in, you know? And I'm not sure I understand that. Really? Yeah.

Suzie : Like, I feel like there. There are times when I like to be kind of, like, better than my boyfriend because maybe they just, like, underestimate you, and then they're like, I told you I can ******* do something.

Mel: Yeah.

Suzie : So stop, you know, maybe treating me like a little girl. Do you know what I mean? Like, I let.

Mel: Yeah.

Suzie : In the way of, like, I'm actually able to do things on my own without you kind of thing.

Mel: And being like, yeah, for sure.

Suzie : Right. There's just these times. But also, I, in a personal matter, still want to be like a soft and supple little woman.

Mel: You want to have a man sort of be like a. He sort of can take care of you and look after you in a physical and every sort of way, really.

Suzie : I mean, personally, I just don't want to beat up my boyfriend.

Mel: Yeah. No.

Suzie : In a way that he is not able to defend himself against me. How does that make me feel if we're both attacked?

Mel: Yeah. It's not positive.

Suzie : Right.

Mel: However, I would say this is judo. And I told you I did judo when I was younger.

Suzie : Yeah, you did.

Mel: And it is like, it's not the same as punching somebody in the face. So sort of. There's a level of skill.

Suzie : Yeah.

Mel: And so I don't know if she'd done this before, or maybe she's. Because she's small, it's also easy to maneuver.

Suzie : Yeah.

Mel: In judo. So I'm sure if he, like, you know, got her in an arm lock and was aggressive, then he would obviously overpower her. It's just a specific skill thing. And judo, if I'm not mistaken, is often used. Like, I took it when I was young, when I was, like, a teenager. My mom wanted me to do it for self defense.

Suzie : Right.

Mel: Because it's a thing that women can do. They can kind of do. Right. That you learn how to do these locks and you don't have to have this huge physical presence. That's kind of judo. So maybe she's good at it because she is a small woman who can zip around. Right. But if he actually physically overcame her, not that he wants to, because clearly, he's embarrassed about it. He probably would be able to. I think it's like, I think he should just relax a bit. Like, don't get so upset that this doesn't make you less of a man. But I also think she's. She's, like, sticking the knife in and being a little bit, like.

Suzie : I mean, so, like, I think there is a thing of, like, this relationship in general. So you took judo classes together for a reason. You both either wanted to maybe some fun exercise together.

Mel: Yeah.

Suzie : You wanted to do a new activity together. So what was the point in the beginning of doing this class together in the first place? Was it to have fun? Was it to do activity? Was it to be good at judo? You know, like, what was the point?

Mel: That's a very good point.

Suzie : So, like, maybe go back to the reason that you both did it together. Is it to be good at judo? Cause then, yeah, sure, move up to the ******* advanced class with her and maybe you'll be better at her then. Do you know what I mean?

Mel: If she's better than me.

Suzie : Exactly. It's not even the point. But there's just like, that thing of, like, okay, like, what is the point of this? Is it just to be together then? Yeah, you should do the class with.

Mel: It, then it's fine if one's person's better. But I think it's because, I mean, if they were doing painting class and she was better than him, he wouldn't give a ****. Yeah, right. Or they were sculpting or doing something, you know, airy fairy. Because it's a physical thing.

Suzie : Right.

Mel: It's. That's why he's like, hang on a second. I'm meant to be the man here, and I should be able. I should be better at this. Well, actually, not necessarily, because this isn't like having a bar fight and kicking the **** out of somebody. This is sort of a skilled level of self defense, whatever the technical term for judo is. So maybe she's just better at that because she can maneuver quickly. I mean, it's a bit like, let's say you took soccer classes together and she was better than you. Would that be an issue? Would it be like, no, soccer is a man's game? Yeah, yeah. Or if you took, I don't know, baseball or something like that. I think it's because it's physical and it's about overpowering people, judo, that it's embarrassing because you're like, oh, my God, I'm a man. I'm a grown *** man. And sounds like we don't know because that's all the information we have. But he's like a. Sounds a bit like alpha male and so he's like, it's embarrassing and I get that. And I do think that if you're the girlfriend, maybe read into the vibe a bit and just like, you know, chill out. But on the other hand, he needs to chill out. This doesn't say anything about him. This doesn't say anything about his abilities to defend his girlfriend if something happens or the fact that he wouldn't win a boxing match with Tyson Fury or something.

Suzie : I just feel like this isn't just gonna blow over also, like.

Mel: No, it's obviously a fan.

Suzie : She's going to remember that she can beat you up.

Mel: Yeah.

Suzie : Like, this is embarrassing, the relationship.

Mel: Oh, it could have done. Yeah. And I think it's like anything in life, isn't it? You have to be aware that the outcome can always be very different.

Suzie : Yeah.

Mel: I mean, it could be this or it could be threesome. Susie, do you like the way I brought you?

Suzie : I do.

Mel: It's like it could be anything. You've got to be aware that actually something completely wild can come out of this that isn't at all within the remit of judo. The fact that you're upset because she's better than you are and then you sort of got to accept that, haven't you?

Suzie : Yeah, I just. There's something about if. Yeah, like you said, like if it was painting, it'd be totally different.

Mel: It's like arranging. Yes.

Suzie : A little flower arrangement, which she might have been better than her creative in the relationship.

Mel: Right?

Suzie : You have no idea. Like, there's just. There's things that people are better at. And obviously, like you said, like judo is a little bit, maybe more because you're petite and it's easier to maneuver someone. That's why she's better. It's not about strength, it's about whatever it's called, like unagi. Whatever that is zipping around. That sounds like.

Mel: What is that? Is that from the karaoke kid or something?

Suzie : Yeah, it's something like that, yeah.

Mel: Oh, my God. That is.

Suzie : The **** is that?

Mel: Don't know.

Suzie : Something like that, though. It's ******* dying. It's about something like that. I think that's from friends.

Mel: Is it?

Suzie : Yeah, probably so, yeah, so it's not about.

Mel: It's about.

Suzie : It's not about strength. It's about mental capacity.

Mel: Bringing myself.

Suzie : It's about mental capacity for your. Your opponent's weaknesses, maybe almost. And she knows that you're kind of weak in the ability of, like. No, but she's not gonna *******. Maybe you also are, like, don't want to actually hurt her. I'm gonna give you the benefit of this little doubt.

Mel: I think that's true.

Suzie : That maybe you don't actually want to hurt her. And you are stronger in quotations than her.

Mel: You're holding back, and you're holding back. I think that's probably unconsciously. Yeah.

Suzie : Right.

Mel: She's doing the whole mental thing that she knows that. Yes. I think there's a whole load of **** going on there. I mean, here's an idea. Maybe judo isn't for both of you.

Suzie : Yeah.

Mel: Maybe she should carry on with the judo because she's good at it. And at the end of the day, it's gonna help her. If she's in a situation where she needs to, you know, defend herself or whatever, she's obviously good at it. Why don't you let her continue, and you go and find something else to do. You've done this thing together, and just quietly. Hmm. I mean, back away. Although she may bring it up a lot, and I think you're gonna have to have a discussion about. Okay, just, you know, let's. Yeah, let's just stop talking about it.

Suzie : I know. Seriously, like, it's. It's hard when things, like, actually kind of break down a relationship in a way that you're not really realizing that they might.

Mel: Yeah.

Suzie : Especially for something that happened so suddenly you weren't really seeing coming as well. Like, yeah, I if. I mean, I've never taken judo, although I think I might be good at it because I am also petite.

Mel: I think you would be very good.

Suzie : And I'm good at maneuvering.

Mel: I think you'd be very.

Suzie : And I'm also good at pointing out people's weaknesses when they don't want to.

Mel: I think you'd be good.

Suzie : And so I feel. But I feel like if I were to do this with my boyfriend or something or, like, another guy and I were to win or whatever. The match. Whatever. Win the match. Yeah. I probably wouldn't be as, like, I don't want to say, like, attracted to you, but, like, you know, there's something that comes down being like, is this really my guy if he can't man.

Mel: Up a little bit?

Suzie : I'm not saying beat her up, but I'm saying, like, really think about, maybe this isn't even the girl for me. If she's gonna do this to me and feel good about her doing it. Do you know what I mean? It's a very tricky situation.

Mel: There's a lot going on here. I mean, look, we don't know where you are in your relationship.

Suzie : Yeah.

Mel: And you live together, so that's kind of tricky.

Suzie : Yeah.

Mel: But I think maybe judo is not the thing for the both of you. Maybe you should try cooking classes.

Suzie : Cooking classes.

Mel: Wine tasting. Great wine tasting.

Suzie : Something sexier than judo.

Mel: Yeah, I think wine tasting is excellent.

Suzie : Let her have judo. Maybe you can. Maybe you can do a flower arrangement for her.

Mel: Yeah. Very nice. I love creative men, but, you know, sensitive men. But I think that probably is an element here with this guy, that he probably was holding himself back and probably. But it's also. It's just a skill. Maybe she's just better at this. This kind of skill that judo has. And, I mean, it's kind of. I think you have to stop yourself going down this rabbit hole. I really think you have to stop that.

Suzie : Yeah.

Mel: I think she also has to pull back. So. So I think if it is really upsetting you, I think you have to say, look, maybe you'll really say to your girlfriend, you're really good at it, so you go on and do the advanced class and say, look, I'm obviously not very good at it. I'm a little uncomfortable. I don't want to be physical with you in this way. Can we just, like, you know, not keep bringing this up and communicate that and say, look, I'm. I'm feeling a little, like, hurt and. Yeah. And I just. I'd be honest. Like, my male ego has been. Been a little. A little kind of, what's the word? Bashed up a bit.

Suzie : Yeah.

Mel: Yeah. And I think you have to be honest about it because that's the truth. And at the end of the day, if, you know she's the right girl for you, she'll get it. And if she's not, she won't. And then you might meet somebody at the wine tasting class.

Suzie : Yeah.

Mel: Yeah.

Suzie : Like, there's.

Mel: Because I just think you shouldn't weigh up your entire masculinity, which is what you're doing. And yet. And men do do this where they sort of weigh everything up. Like, your whole male ego, a lot of men have it in their job, is all wrapped up in this thing. Like, that's ridiculous. It's totally ridiculous. I also, personally, I don't believe in relationships wherein you're in competition with each other. I'm not personally in competition with my husband. He's not in competition with me. I just think it's futile. Why do you want to compete with your partner?

Suzie : No, it doesn't make any sense.

Mel: You both have different skills. You're better at some things than others, and that's fine. You don't have to be good at everything. You don't have to make the same amount of money. You don't have to. It's not a competition. You're there to be there for each other. So I think that would be my advice. Judo is not for you, anonymous. And you should let your girlfriend carry on.

Suzie : Yes.

Mel: And do the advanced class and you should find another interest, which I'm sure you can find.

Suzie : What if he likes judo, though?

Mel: It doesn't sound like it.

Suzie : No. Also like, don't go back to the beginner class if you're gonna ******* go for it. Do the advanced class with her. If you really want to do this. Still with her.

Mel: Yeah.

Suzie : But also if you're like, okay with just accepting that she is going to be better than you at this, maybe just let that happen. Yeah, I think that boxing classes and I'm nothing like just yourself to feel kind of better about it.

Mel: More you masculine.

Suzie : And then she'll take judo classes. And I'm not saying you guys ******* play fight cause that's aggressive and I don't want you to punch her or anything like that. I don't want her to fight you at all.

Mel: No.

Suzie : Ever. Anyways. But you can do other physical things that are very similar that may make you feel a little bit better. Also separately, you don't have to do this together anymore.

Mel: Exactly.

Suzie : Also save the relationship over that.

Mel: If you know yourself as a man, if you know, like, if you're physically strong or you're a big man or whatever it is, which we, we don't know, then you know that you have the strength, right. You, you know, this is just, this is the type of thing we're talking about. So, you know, is it the bigger question that you actually aren't? I don't know. That's another whole layer of stuff, isn't it?

Suzie : Yeah.

Mel: So, I mean, I think you need to think about that. I think judo is a red herring. It's like you know who you are as a man and if you're physically, like, bigger or stronger and you could overcome her, just perhaps not using judo. I'm not saying in any way you want to do that. You don't want to do that. But are you in this question questioning your masculinity or strength? Doesn't sound like it to me. It sounds like it's just this thing, judo where you're not as good as her. So what? It happens to be physical, it happens to be a self defense, a thing of physically overpowering somebody. But so what, I mean, like, like he says at the end, you should be pleased that she's good at it because anything happens, she'll be great.

Suzie : Yeah.

Mel: And I think there is probably an element that you have held yourself back. I mean, I honestly think if you're physically bigger and stronger, this is your girlfriend, you don't want to hurt her and definitely, certainly hope you don't want to. And absolutely sounds like that's not what's going on here. And it's obviously just not the right forum and just let her carry on because that's great. If a woman's good at that self defense sport, great. Go and do something else.

Suzie : Yeah. Like allow her to have this thing and just like have a conversation about being like, love that you're really good at this and that. Like, maybe it's just not my thing or my path for it. And I'm gonna, and I'm, I can't wait to come see you at your final match.

Mel: Exactly. And maybe you'll have it, you'll joke about it, that, you know, she's better at it and that's cool. But if you're a big man, like a physical man, obviously she's not stronger than you. I mean, you know, we're not gonna get into any weird and it's okay.

Suzie : If she is wokery here, but I just don't want you to feel like you have to be good at this thing.

Mel: Exactly. That's just silly. Just because it's a physical thing. She's good. She's better than you. Great. But you know who you are. And if you are, you know, it sounds to me like you're shocked that she's better. So it sounds to me like you are a bigger mandeh. So what are you worried about?

Suzie : I think it's just shocks because she's a woman.

Mel: Yeah. And she's small, guys.

Suzie : A little shocked.

Mel: Yeah. And physically smaller and everything. But I think you should actually turn this into great. You're better. You're better at this than me. That's fantastic. You can defend yourself. I think you should carry on and do really well have a little bit of a joke about it. Let it go. You go and do something else. Have a conversation. Like we kind of, you kind of need to drop the putting intimidate, putting me down about this kind of thing. If that's what she's doing and move on.

Suzie : Yeah. As long as she's also, like, not, like, kind of, like, baiting you with it.

Mel: Yeah. That's always not clear. And if she's doing that, then you really need to have a conversation because that's not nice.

Suzie : And, like, if that's the kind of, like, her personality, and we have no idea if that's what it is, but, like, if that's her personality of, like, kind of, like, not making fun of you, but just kind of, like, poking at your little soars a little bit and, like, not really realizing she's doing it or not really caring, which is even worse, then you do need to have a more serious conversation and kind of think to yourself if this is the kind of person you want to spend your life with.

Mel: I think that's a very good point already.

Suzie : Right.

Mel: I think that's a really good point. If she is somebody who kind of, I guess, picks at your weaknesses or kind of goes on about things.

Suzie : No one likes that.

Mel: No. And I think also if you are a very sort of alpha, masculine Mandev.

Suzie : Yeah.

Mel: And when you laugh at men like that or you try and intimidate them, they hate it. And it's not because they're ********. It's because they're manly and they want to feel that they're looking after you and they're in control. And that is not a bad thing. You know, you shouldn't. You shouldn't be upset about that, I don't think. But. And you shouldn't make fun of somebody. I don't see the point of that. Especially somebody in a relationship.

Suzie : Well, yeah. If someone. If I like. If someone were, like, to treat me not as, like, lady like, as I like to be treated because I'm a very feminine person.

Mel: Yeah.

Suzie : And if they were just like, I don't know, like, I have no idea what they. What an example of this would be. But, like, commented about, like, how. How I walk in a really manly way or something. I would be very self conscious, is all I'm trying to say. Like, there's just things that I'd be like, oh, my God, am I nothing? The person kind of. I thought I was. Yeah, it's a really stupid example, but do you know what I mean? Like, there's just, like, ways that people can poke at you in a weird way that make you kind of second guess who you actually are. Even though they're small things, they still kind of complete who you think you are as a person, and then you kind of have to, like, go with your self esteem and be like, oh, my God, am I. Am I questioning my actual. Who I am?

Mel: 100%? Yeah, I definitely. I think the issue here is that. That I don't think he has an issue with her being better at something. It's just that it's a physical thing.

Suzie : Yeah.

Mel: And he feels that less of a man because he should be able to do this sort of thing, and it's okay for her to be better. I think you just need. It's okay for her to be better than you. Yeah, it's.

Suzie : Women are better than men at a lot of ******* things. Oh, my God. Like, mostly most things. Can I just be honest? Better at a lot of things.

Mel: Yeah. And. And really, Judo, you should be pleased.

Suzie : Yes, God **** it.

Mel: You should be pleased. Really great. It just. If she keeps poking fun at you, I think you should have a conversation. Again. I'm gonna say it again. I think she should go on and become a master Marshall, whatever. ******* judo mastery person, whatever the hell that is. Don't you think? Yes. And you should. I don't know. I tell you what. Here's an idea. She goes off to judo classes on a Tuesday night, for example. It's your night to cook and buy her flowers.

Suzie : That's something I was gonna say, too.

Mel: She goes off, you do something, you have a lovely time together. That's the end of it. But you still know you're a man. You still know that you can. If, let's say, you're out somewhere, you could defend her, which sounds to me like that is the case. It's just you won't be using judo to do that. So that's it, really?

Suzie : Yeah, it doesn't matter. Honey. You're probably a really good person. And you. You love your girl, I think.

Mel: Well, I think so. Otherwise you wouldn't have written to us.

Suzie : Exactly. There's just things that maybe you'd need to figure out with her, and she needs to figure out with you to make your relationship stronger, keep it strong. But you don't always have to do anything together, and you can keep doing your own thing. You guys can figure out what each other does and doesn't like, and this. Relationships are a journey, and it's exciting to be a part of them, 100%. Don't put so much pressure on yourself.

Mel: Don't. And she could become really, really good at it, and it could be your, like, little joke with people that you started doing this together and you were **** at it, and she was amazing.

Suzie : Yeah. It's funny.

Mel: And it's brilliant.

Suzie : And it's kind of funny now because of that. You took a cooking class and now you're ******* executive chef at a Michelin star restaurant.

Mel: Very good. Who knows? Yeah, exactly. Anyway, I hope this is in some way helped. Mister Anonymous.

Suzie : Somewhat insightful, but yeah. So if you are listening, sir, we really appreciate your input and your story. Thank you for sharing your truth with us. And if you want to reply back missing that you figured it out or maybe a follow up, we would absolutely love that if any of this advice helped at all. But if not, we also want to hear from our other listeners and what do you guys think of what he should do or not do? We'd love to know.

Mel: And if you have sort of similar. Yeah. Situations where you're kind of stuck, like this guy, like he feels he should feel one thing and be another thing and he's sort of stuck between.

Suzie : Yeah.

Mel: The two essentially, 100%. Yeah. Like his male ego and him as a boyfriend, he's a little stuck between the two.

Suzie : Yeah.

Mel: And I, you know, I honestly could think it's pretty, pretty normal and. But, yeah. Anybody has a story or a woman who has a similar kind of story, you know, who kind of on the flip side of maybe something a woman should be good at, but she's not.

Suzie : Yeah.

Mel: Like me, I can't cook.

Suzie : Oh. And I'm not a cleaning.

Mel: But I don't think it's. I think it's great.

Suzie : I just don't care. I don't care about. I'm like, I can hire someone to do that.

Mel: That's true. You can.

Suzie : Like christ.

Mel: Yeah. Yes.

Suzie : Anyway, everyone has flaws and everyone has strengths, and you got to lean into your strengths, man. Forgive your flaws.

Mel: Absolutely. And they don't always fall into. You're a man, you're a woman. Let's just. Just chill out.

Suzie : ******* chill out. And judo chop.

Mel: Judo chop.

Suzie : Was that politically correct?

Mel: Yeah, probably not. Anyway, that's gratty, isn't it? Yeah, she's.

Suzie : I can't wait to take my judo class. I choose to talk about it with you. It beat you up.

Mel: Anyway. That's it. That's all we got.

Suzie : Okay, everyone, thank you so much for listening. You guys can always find us@sharemytruth.com where you can share your truths with us. We're gonna share my truth pod. You can dm us some fun other things. Maybe if you've taken the judo. Maybe if you're in the class, you saw it and you videotaped it. We wanna see that.

Mel: Right yeah, great idea.

Suzie : All right, I'll see you kitchers later.

Mel: The what?

Suzie : I don't know, kitchers.

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