Suzie : Welcome to sharing my truth with Mel and Suzie, the uncensored version where we bear it all.

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Mel: Oh, my God.

Suzie : See how adorable we are? Obviously. And, yeah, just don't forget to comment, like and subscribe. Hey, babes.

Mel: Hello, darlingen.

Suzie : Darling. How are you today?

Mel: I'm just fantastic.

Suzie : We've had a little bit of Reno. Not too much.

Mel: No, but very reasonable european amount.

Suzie : And I'm european.

Mel: I can say that she's a european. I am not a european.

Suzie : But that's okay.

Mel: I can pretend you can if you like.

Suzie : I can pretend I can fit in very well. Unless you hear me speak, and then it's problematic.

Mel: It's problematic.

Suzie : Okay, so today's episode.

Mel: Yes.

Suzie : What are we talking about? Well.

Mel: It'S about, does size matter? Yes, and we know what we're talking about. We're talking about the male appendage and.

Suzie : The appendage, yes.

Mel: The *****, the pee pee, the wee.

Suzie : Wee, the we wa.

Mel: And, you know, it's just. To answer the eternal male question, do ask. Ladies. And two ladies from two different generations. Bonjour. Bonjour. Is it important?

Suzie : Yes.

Mel: Well, I hand it over to you.

Suzie : The little turtle in the shell, here we come. Yeah, of course it's important because. Yeah, the feeling. It's the feeling. It's like. But it's all about preference. Personally, I love the look of a good one. A big one.

Mel: You do?

Suzie : I love the feel of a big one.

Mel: Fair enough.

Suzie : And. But it's all about preference. Sometimes girls, women, you know, they don't need or want a big one because it's big. That's a good question.

Mel: In it turtle stage and in it.

Suzie : Turtle stage does not matter, obviously.

Mel: Okay, showers.

Suzie : Who cares? Growers. Who cares? Do you think women are the end result is what you're looking for?

Mel: Wow. Do you think there are women who do care about the before bit?

Suzie : I'm sure there are women who have. Are you talking men or women?

Mel: Women. Women who care about men. What it looks and it's before stage.

Suzie : Yeah, I think I'm. I mean, there's it's possible that women do care, that they like showers and not just growers.

Mel: Well, I think maybe in clothing and sometimes, you know, you see men out and about and you're like, wow, that is a little too much. I love it. You need to tuck that away. There's too much going on there.

Suzie : Yeah. I mean, it's not for everyone. I think it does take a certain kind of woman to also enjoy and know what to do with a big one.

Mel: Really? What's a certain kind of woman?

Suzie : Just a woman who appreciates one. If you don't appreciate it, then it's not. You're not gonna. You're not gonna know what to do with it.

Mel: Well, how big are we talking?

Suzie : Okay, so that's. We're getting to. Right. So what do we. What do we say? The average ***** size?

Mel: Well, you asked me just before we looked it up. Yes. You said to me, what do you think the average is?

Suzie : Yeah.

Mel: And I said, I'd say the average man. Mister, you know, Mister Willie Clark. Exactly. I say erect is five to six inches. I'd say that is very good. That's it. That's, you know, that's the standard. And that's the standard. And I'd say many men are below that. Some men are above that. Yeah. So even though that's actually the standard, I'd say that's what I said to you. And then we looked it up and it was six inches.

Suzie : Yeah, I'd say. But that six inches is fine. I think it also depends on the girth.

Mel: The girth.

Suzie : You're gonna need a nice bit of girth.

Mel: Yes. In there. Okay, fair enough. But I mean, skinny and long.

Suzie : No, I don't like skinny and long. It's not my thing.

Mel: I can't. I mean, it's been so long, I don't remember.

Suzie : I need a nice. A nice girth on that.

Mel: Yeah.

Suzie : Full of two hands, but yeah. No, like six inches is great.

Mel: Yeah.

Suzie : A little larger than average. I like maybe seven. Seven could be nice. Eight's a bit much.

Mel: Well, yeah, you're not a big woman. Where does it go?

Suzie : Where does it go? That's what I mean.

Mel: That's another thing, you know, where does it go?

Suzie : Where does it go? It doesn't fit.

Mel: I mean, that's problematic, isn't it? Just like, physically, you know, when you see really tall men and you just assume their ***** is enormous, with tiny women, you're just like. First thought that comes to my head. Where does it go? There's a famous. There's a guy who's a famous NFL player or something like that. Some wrestler, something. He's massive, like humongous guy. And his girlfriend is literally like your size. Yeah. Picture of them somewhere the other day. And that's the first thought that came to my head. It's natural.

Suzie : But here's the thing. So I actually slept with a CFL player. So not as fancy.

Mel: Oh, right.

Suzie : Not as fancy. But I remember big guy.

Mel: Okay, does that mean big?

Suzie : Let me. Let me get there. Okay. So big guy, obviously way taller than me, maybe like six five ish, blonde, really cute, buff. And I was like, I'm gonna ******* sleep with this guy tonight.

Mel: You know.

Suzie : Met him at the bar and his ***** was so small.

Mel: Isn't that interesting?

Suzie : It was so small I laughed at it.

Mel: Oh, no, you did. But I didn't mean to.

Suzie : It just came out because it's the contrast. It's like I couldn't believe it.

Mel: Small in all ways.

Suzie : Small.

Mel: Turtle and non turtle.

Suzie : Like. It could have been a micro.

Mel: Well, how it could have.

Suzie : It was. Could have been a micro.

Mel: How small was it?

Suzie : Smaller than four. Smaller than four?

Mel: Oh, lord.

Suzie : Smaller than four, yeah.

Mel: And this man was like six foot five.

Suzie : He was very tall. That's why it was funny. I wasn't laughing at him, but it was just a contrast of the situation. I was like, how could this come from you? You're huge.

Mel: I think the growth went elsewhere.

Suzie : It was very upsetting to me. He did get me off in other ways, but I never slept with him again.

Mel: It's very nice of him.

Suzie : So that's why I know for me that size matters.

Mel: Okay, so you're looking at a seven or an eight.

Suzie : I like a seven or an eight. And even a nice sixer will do it. Well, yes, if you know what to do with that.

Mel: I mean, I think that's even a good five.

Suzie : You guys know what to ******* do with that. That's great, but it just needs to be. And you know what, guys? If you don't have.

Mel: Yes? What do you do if you don't have it?

Suzie : You gotta make it up in other ways.

Mel: Do you get one of those pumps and they make it bigger? I don't think they do.

Suzie : No, I don't think. I think it's bad idea, isn't it?

Mel: They did have one in. What's the new sex in the city called? Yeah, there was a guy who had a pump. But is that maybe to help you get an erection? Maybe? That's not to help.

Suzie : I really don't know. Maybe.

Mel: I don't know. But can you. You can have an operation, can't you?

Suzie : Don't tell men to have an operation.

Mel: I'm not telling people to do that, but I'm just saying I'm curious. Can you.

Suzie : There's no ******* way you can have an operation on your literal ***** and it be the same same. If not, like, there's no way to.

Mel: Please don't do that.

Suzie : But I'm just saying, like, get good at making the girl or guy come 100% in other ways that doesn't involve. You're down there's.

Mel: You're down there.

Suzie : You're down there.

Mel: Yeah, I mean, I think that's true. I mean, I don't think this affects. I don't know. But maybe you know more than I do, because I've not, you know, been in the. The dating pool for a very long time, 25 years. So I can't really remember. It's in the misty past. But would you say on average, men are in a sort of good to upper range or good to lower range?

Suzie : I've seen way more good dicks, and I have bad dicks.

Mel: Okay, well, there you go.

Suzie : So, gentlemen, maybe you don't think your **** is that good. Maybe it is. You're gonna find your little Cinderella, and she is gonna fit that **** like a glove.

Mel: Yes, exactly. Exactly, exactly. And if you know what to do and all the rest of it. So I think it matters to a point if it, like, is really small.

Suzie : It never mattered to you.

Mel: I've never. Well, I've never really seen a really small one.

Suzie : But you've need. Do you need a good one?

Mel: Well, I only have one.

Suzie : I know, but, like, when you were dating and you were, like, sleeping around slutty little Mel and petty.

Mel: Uh, well, I'd say I've never come across a small one. Right.

Suzie : So you're kind of just, like, expecting the average and, like, totally fine with that.

Mel: I don't think I gave it as much thought as you do. Yeah, to be fair, it's probably one.

Suzie : Of the first if I'm going on a date with a guy. Cause you can't tell from photos. You know what I mean? Like, you really don't know what you're getting yourself into until you meet them and you see their energy.

Mel: Yeah.

Suzie : And then you also are kind of like. You're like, am I gonna.

Mel: Can you tell from the man?

Suzie : You can tell sometimes from the man.

Mel: Really?

Suzie : And then you can kind of be like, you know, when you're starting to fool around, but you're not like there yet. Then you can really tell if they've got a good small one, and then it's just sad when they don't have a very nice one.

Mel: Yeah. I mean, I would say it's probably true. This is factual to say, I haven't seen as many penises in the flesh as you have.

Suzie : That's pathetic.

Mel: I'd say it's probably factual because I did meet my husband when I was 24. I got married at 28, and I'm now 51. So just the stats there are not good, are they? I am. The stats are not. The stats are not good. And I don't think I thought about it really that much. I'm not sure we did. We think about these things. Maybe somebody did. I don't know, but I've never come across micro. I mean, you hear about them. Yeah, I'm telling you, I never come across a humongous ***** one, though.

Suzie : Look, you don't need a *****.

Mel: I know friends of mine.

Suzie : Terrifying.

Mel: Who were like. And one friend of mine, and he kind of got it. And she's like. And she literally was like. She told me. She just went, because it was like, what do I do with that?

Suzie : Look, I've had a really big one. I have more huge, huge ones, and I have really itty bitty small ones, I think. Okay, maybe those big ones are actually just more memorable. Yeah, but the big ones, it's really deal. It's difficult.

Mel: Can you get the big ones? No, no. You sort of hang out.

Suzie : Well, you actually never really thought about this. So, ladies, if you're a man, let.

Mel: Me give some tips. Okay? Yeah, go and give some tips. Go on then. It's very useful if you are with.

Suzie : A man who has a bigger member appendage, you have to get really lubed up. Okay.

Mel: Yeah.

Suzie : Just imagine you're kind of doing ****, but you're not doing ****.

Mel: Okay.

Suzie : So it's like you have this tight hole that something is bigger is gonna go in and you can also train your, your ***** to handle it. So you can get ******, giant ****** that, like, when you're not with him, you're training your ***** to deal with that and it's not so shocking. Right. And you also, like, when you're with them, to, like, warm yourself up properly, make sure that your partner knows to warm your, like, warm you up and like, make sure that you're super turned on and that you are going to be able to.

Mel: So you're talking big that way and big that way.

Suzie : I'm talking big.

Mel: All right. Sort of like a tree.

Suzie : Oh, I could drink a trunk.

Mel: And I mean, yeah. I mean, yeah, terrifying.

Suzie : Yeah, terrifying.

Mel: And actually hard for the man. Cause you think like, a man has a big *****. That's like full of pride. He's like amazing. But then the reality of that is there is such a thing as too big.

Suzie : Yeah. Here's also. There's so one of my first boyfriends.

Mel: Unless you're a **** star.

Suzie : That I ever had. Unless you're a **** star. My first boyfriends that I ever had had a pretty big **** for what I thought it was. But now I wonder. I always wonder this, that if I go. If I ever slept with them again, if I ever slept with them again, now I'm like, would I still think it was a big ****?

Mel: That's funny. It's like when you're gonna be like, pretty when you were little and you thought something was really big, but it's from memory, from childhood. And then you go back and you're like, what?

Suzie : That really wasn't as bad as I thought it was.

Mel: That's very funny.

Suzie : So if you're listening, if you know who you are, you know the go at it, please let her know.

Mel: So that basically we are saying that I don't think it's as important as men create this myth in their head that women. So obviously what we're saying is a decent size is important.

Suzie : You just have to know what to do with your hands, your mouth.

Mel: Absolutely. Hundred percent. But it's not like I think this idea of it has to be ginormous. All costs is just not the truth. It has to be a good, decent standard size. Like anything. I mean, it's not, I mean, is it very different to *****?

Suzie : It's. See, that's the thing. It's like men have preferences for ******* and **** too.

Mel: They do. I know.

Suzie : And that's okay.

Mel: Men, you have to have your preferences like huge titas. And some men like small *******, 100%. And the men who like big ******* don't understand them. Women. The men who like small ******* and vice versa, for sure. Yeah.

Suzie : And it's just the way life is. And it's good. Yeah.

Mel: And there is a thing. There is such a thing. I think you're right. As people. Sort of fitting. Yes. It's like an odd kind of concept. Sounds sort of medieval. And they did used to say that apparently it's like a medieval thing. People don't fit. They can't get pregnant. But I think it's like a thing. Like, some people just fit and some people don't. Yeah. So maybe if you don't fit, then that's not the right guy. Right. And not actually be all that worried about if the shoes fit. But I. But I. Very good. But I don't know if you're a man like your friend you were discussing who has a very, very small. I don't know what you do about. I really don't because that is tricky. And he must get so much.

Suzie : The thing about it was that I remember so the whole story. So we went home together. We fooled around a bit, but I actually, like, fell asleep. And, like, we were at his place, and then he went to bed. And then, like, I woke up in the morning and I was like, okay, I can either go home. Like, sneak out, go home, or I can go, like, try to sleep with him. And so I was like, okay, **** it. I'm already here. And he was nice, like, whatever, let's do our thing. And so I go wake him up. And then we get into it. And, I mean, at this point, I'm sober, but I'm like, you know, like, yeah, whatever.

Mel: Fuzzy.

Suzie : Fuzzy. And he didn't seem like he was that surprised of my reaction, if I can say that. I guess. You know, like. And it was interesting because he, you know, he puts on this Persona of, like, I'm a big, strong man. He said some weird ****. Like, oh, I'm like, probably the smartest guy you'll ever **** or, like, be with or something like that. It was, like, so weird because he, like, went to *******, like, UCLA or something. I was like, okay, ******* cool.

Mel: Yeah.

Suzie : You know, I was like, okay, no problem. And he had this tiny, tiny ****. So what did I tell you?

Mel: You know, it tells me lots of things.

Suzie : Memorable.

Mel: Yeah.

Suzie : I don't remember his name, but he's memorable.

Mel: Yeah, it tells me lots of things. And it can't be easy to live with. And especially you think he's a football player. And they do all that sharing business and stuff. So all the other men have seen it.

Suzie : Oh, yeah.

Mel: And that's not gonna be good, is it? And men talk. I mean, that's the thing. Straight men talk about other men's penises a lot. Yeah. And I've always found that fascinating.

Suzie : They're obsessed with them.

Mel: They're obsessed with them. Like, we were just using this word at the urinal.

Suzie : Urinal.

Mel: The urinals, the urinal. When you're having a pee, they always have a peek, don't they?

Suzie : Of course they do. Gotta look.

Mel: Which it was so odd.

Suzie : If we peed out of our ****, I would look at every *** that came up.

Mel: Really?

Suzie : For sure.

Mel: Wow.

Suzie : You wouldn't. You wanna take a peek? A little sneak peek?

Mel: No.

Suzie : I feel like since like, you know, if you have really good ones, they're like, check this out. And you ******* do tricks with them. You wouldn't do that.

Mel: No, no.

Suzie : I mean have a little fun with your nips.

Mel: Come on.

Suzie : Come on.

Mel: Looking at the women's *******.

Suzie : *******?

Mel: No. Well, you are bisexual, Susie. It's not every key interest of mine to even look.

Suzie : Take a peek. Curiosity at women's boots.

Mel: I suppose if they're very large, you look. And mine are sort of quite large, so they're even larger.

Suzie : A lot of women going after you.

Mel: I do have quite a lot of gay. What's advancements? Lesbians. I do, yes, I do have quite a lot of that.

Suzie : Great. And I gave in to the urge.

Mel: Gay men. Oh, would I, the lesbian? No. No, no. Because it's not my thing, but it does happen and I think that is *** driven feeling. It's *** driven. It's the feminine femme thing and it does happen a fair amount. And I was fairly clueless. And then I sort of real. And then, well, actually my husband realized and then he's like, you know what's happening?

Suzie : She wants to **** you.

Mel: Oh. Sometimes it's useful.

Suzie : But you like to get what you want from these women because they're gonna pump your gas, aren't they? They're gonna hump your gas. They're gonna change your light bulbs.

Mel: Exactly. I was just telling Susie earlier, I don't change light bulbs.

Suzie : Never change the light bulb of her. ******* life. Doesn't know where a gas tank is. It's incredible.

Mel: I don't do any of these things.

Suzie : Oh, it doesn't? Open jars.

Mel: No, I can't. I'm. No, I don't. But I can actually do that. Look, the point of the conversation is Susie's a much more practical woman than I am.

Suzie : I'm just a modern woman.

Mel: You are. Yeah. Anyway, okay, back onto size matters, but I think we've covered it.

Suzie : I think we have to stop this because I keep going forever.

Mel: Yeah. But I think we've sort of nobbled it, which is funny. Nobbled *** is the *****. Nobbled it.

Suzie : If you guys have big dicks and you have problems, you have small dicks who have problems. If you've seen a bigger small one of you, that was a problem. You let us know. Go to shamrich.com.

Mel: Yeah.

Suzie : Talk to us about it. But also, yes, please don't send us your **** pics.

Mel: Oh, please don't.

Suzie : We don't want to see those. Not unsolicited. No, actually, if you want to send us a **** pic, it's dollar 500. A ****.

Mel: No, I really.

Suzie : No, we'll look at that.

Mel: Um, I really, I. No, I don't. It's good. I'm good. I'm just good.

Suzie : She's still enough.

Mel: And I don't, I don't. She doesn't. I only see another one. I'm sure yours is lovely, but you can keep it to yourself.

Suzie : Lovely.

Mel: Susie. I don't know.

Suzie : No, I don't.

Mel: $500.

Suzie : $500 though. I would really. Yeah.

Mel: Okay.

Suzie : I'd rate your **** for $500.

Mel: Rate it?

Suzie : Yeah, rate your ****.

Mel: Wow. Okay, fair enough.

Suzie : Um, anyways.

Mel: Thirties.

Suzie : Do you want to spill the tea?

Mel: Go on. Them.

Suzie : It's spilling the tea.

Mel: Go on.

Suzie : Okay, we are spilling that tea. What do we say about when someone.

Mel: Oh yes.

Suzie : Who you're dating?

Mel: Yes.

Suzie : This didn't happen to me, obviously. It was super regular. But what if someone on a first, 2nd, 3rd, even like before ten dates says, I love you?

Mel: I think it's somewhat concerning because I think it's a little juvenile.

Suzie : Right. So they don't actually probably know what love is.

Mel: Well, yeah, I mean, it's funny because as the joke I have with my husband is, it took him for ****** ever. Took him way too ****** long.

Suzie : How long?

Mel: More than six months.

Suzie : ******.

Mel: Yeah. And I was very annoyed about the whole thing.

Suzie : And you obviously didn't say it first.

Mel: No, I'm not saying it first. No, no.

Suzie : Ladies don't say I love you first.

Mel: Right. I'm not saying that they'll never forget it, but no, it took him too long and he thought he was being really cool. And as he puts it, well, it worked, didn't it? I'm like, wow, it's a bit excessive. I think.

Suzie : I think three months.

Mel: Three months is fine if a relationship, you know, you've seen a lot of each other's going fast and you're va va vomit passionate and all that. But the chances are before that, you're obviously not in love with the person you're in love with the idea of the person. So I think that's a little juvenile. You can obviously, I do think you can meet somebody and feel like, wow. Meet somebody very quickly and feel blown away by them or feel that feeling and you actually know what it is. Or, you know, where it's going, let's put it that way. But I think saying it's a bit weird and it's a lot of pressure, and I think, you know, I mean, it's such a long time ago for me, but, I mean, obviously, you have to sort of dance a little bit of a dance at the beginning, don't you?

Suzie : You have to dance a dance.

Mel: Yeah, to get to know each other. And then the chances are, if you said it in date one or two, you may not have slept together, and that's another whole thing. And you haven't spent enough time with somebody to know what they're like and their ideas and their values and do you like them? Do you agree with them? Do you like them in social settings? I mean, you need a bit more information, don't you, really?

Suzie : No, 100%. I think it's just, like, people get caught up in this way of feeling. Maybe they've never felt that way before because they're excited. This person is passionate than they think about or they've experienced before, and I don't know, it just gets people excited if they've never experienced that, and then they just, like, don't know what to do with that kind of feeling.

Mel: Yeah. And obviously, mistaking lust and love is an age old thing.

Suzie : Well, that's the thing, too. It's like, I feel like a lot of people mistakenly, they don't know if it's a mistake. They don't know it's a mistake. But, like, mistakenly say, like, I love you. During sex or after sex.

Mel: Yeah. When?

Suzie : Like, the after coming low.

Mel: Yeah, yeah.

Suzie : And then you say, yeah, I love you. And then the other person's like, oh, my God. That was just. Sadeena, are you okay?

Mel: Freaked me out. Yeah.

Suzie : Like, and then they never talked to them again. And then that person's, like, devastated.

Mel: Yeah.

Suzie : So that they were in love, but then the other person's like, that was literally just me going down on you for an hour. That you've never felt that before.

Mel: Yeah.

Suzie : You know?

Mel: Yeah. Yeah. I think. I think. I think, yeah. I mean, it takes a. It takes a while to get to know something. I definitely feel you need to love you for sure. You know, like, as I said, you know, my husband, I knew. Yeah. Very early on, because I'd never really felt strong, those kind of strong emotions for anybody else.

Suzie : Yeah.

Mel: Because I'm hard to please. You aren't big tricky. Yeah, I think I am. I'm a tough customer in that sense.

Suzie : Cookie.

Mel: But that's good.

Suzie : That's a good way to be, you know, what you wanted, I think.

Mel: Oh, yeah. I wasn't just falling in love with anybody. I just. No, yeah.

Suzie : I think that's important.

Mel: And not that I, and I like to caveat that I didn't in any way think I was, you know, amazing or anything like that. You are. Oh, thanks. That's lovely. Nice to say. Thank you very much. But I really didn't. I still don't, and, you know, I'm old now, so it's relevant. But the point is, I just think, I just think it wasn't that. It's just that I just don't give it up, give up my love or my soul or my heart or whatever it is easily. I mean, sex is a separate thing. That's separate. Right. And I think you can separate those two things, and I think it's the misnomer that you can't. But, and, you know, it's the whole podcast. The whole podcast in itself. But I think you have to be careful. You really do. And then what if the other person doesn't think it? And then you be crushed and, ugh, what do they know? I mean, you have to go for more than two dinners, three dinners and a couple of snogs and a bit of a fumble to know that you love something. A couple of snogs. Yeah, snog. It's a good word, isn't it?

Suzie : I love that.

Mel: A good old snog in the.

Suzie : You should wait a little bit. I think even if you feel it, even if you feel it, you shouldn't say it.

Mel: I mean, I think you probably know, like my husband says that he knew, literally. I mean, he obviously probably said it, you know, like he knew when he met me that he knew.

Suzie : I think that's actually a lot of guys.

Mel: I think it is.

Suzie : Guys heal it faster than women do.

Mel: I think they do. And I think, like, he's somebody that dated a lot of people and he wasn't interested in relationships. And although he was very young, he seemed to manage to date an awful lot of women. Yeah, he did. And he wasn't interested in relationships. He was interested in the other stuff.

Suzie : The sexiest, sexiest, sexist.

Mel: And so he knew when he met somebody. Okay, this is diff. This is a whole different thing, so. But it still took him a long time. He was, obviously, he thought he was very cool.

Suzie : I mean, he was younger than you.

Mel: He still is. He still is. Oh, my God. Sling all too much.

Suzie : You just blew my ******* mind.

Mel: Mel wah. Yeah, yeah. But, yes, don't say it too soon.

Suzie : Don't do it, guys. Just hold it in. Even if you feel it, you feel like you want to say it. You don't until you're at, like, the three month mark.

Mel: Yeah, you can say a lot of nice things.

Suzie : So nice.

Mel: I don't think you have to drag it out. I think you can say lots of nice things and you can be really complimentary. But love is a whole different thing, and that isn't, you know, and people, I think today are so cynical. They're way more cynical than when I was younger. I do think dating is harder. There's lots of, like, obstacles. And I do think you gotta be careful and you don't, you know, if this person can be a bit nuts.

Suzie : We can protect your heart, too, you know, you don't want to get so heartbroken. Yeah, but, like, for me, like I say I love you to all of my friends all of the time.

Mel: Generational thing.

Suzie : Yeah, but, like, I think that is very important. Like, always saying I love you, the people who you actually like very much.

Mel: Care about hundred percent.

Suzie : And even just like, someone who, like, I've had a really great experience with, like, love you, like, so nice. But I don't think, I think in a way that, like, you're trying to find a partner, it's like, a bit off putting where you're like, oh, but, like, I don't trust you yet. You know what I mean?

Mel: Yeah, I do. I do think it's a generational thing. Obviously, for me, it's a cultural thing. I'm obviously a british ice queen, and I don't say these things lightly. I do say to my children and my husband every time I have a conversation, I love you. I say every, and I do it purposely because I didn't grow up with that. I didn't hear it ever from either of my parents, ever, ever, ever. I can't even actually remember them ever saying it, actually in my entire life. Wow. So I make a point of saying it because I know it goes into you if somebody doesn't say what it does to you. So I've always said it to my children all the time. And they say it and they say it to me every time I have a conversation. And it's not to belittle the world. It's because we really mean it and we say it all the time. And I think it's really important for them and important for my husband to hear it from me. And I mean it when I say it. If I say it a lot. It's irrelevant. But I don't. I do say it sometimes to some friends, maybe. I don't think I use it as liberally, like I've heard. Like, my children will say it to everyone, love you. They'll have a conversation with a really close friend, they'll put the phone down and go, love you. Yeah. I would never do that.

Suzie : What?

Mel: No.

Suzie : Is it weird that I say it to you?

Mel: No, because I know where it's coming from.

Suzie : But you're also like, hey. Yeah, I know you do.

Mel: No, because I think it's your language.

Suzie : Yeah.

Mel: And that's completely fine with me. Yeah, you're. You're a millennial. You're. You have less layers around the onion than I do.

Suzie : Layers?

Mel: Cold onion? Yeah. Am I a cold onion?

Suzie : No, you're just. I know the drawer may be a little too long.

Mel: Exactly. That's exactly it. That's it. Thank you. Thanks back. Such a sexy image. But I, you know, you find it easy. I don't find that easy.

Suzie : Yeah.

Mel: In a. I want to break that out.

Suzie : Yeah.

Mel: Do you? Yeah, I do. Do you want me to say love you? I don't know.

Suzie : Isn't that nice?

Mel: I think I might. Good. Yeah. Have I said it to you? I don't think I have.

Suzie : I think you maybe have.

Mel: And I'm like, no, but I do, genuinely.

Suzie : I know, darling, but even like, my.

Mel: Oldest friends, I don't say it. Tied up. We're all a bit stiff. Upper lip and all that bollocks. Yeah. No, yeah. Anyway, go back to dating. We're gonna finish dating.

Suzie : Do not say I love you enough.

Mel: First or just steady. You know, hold it steady. Off. Steady. That looks a bit boring. Just. Just hold your horses.

Suzie : Got it.

Mel: It's a bit too much, too soon. Pace it. Pace, pace. Pace is important, isn't it? Trot lot. It's a bit like, you know, I'm not gonna say this because it's ridiculous. No. No. What?

Suzie : No, you have to cut it out.

Mel: If I want to. It's not sexy at all. It's a bit like. Like the winter in Canada.

Suzie : Yes.

Mel: You've got to, like, pace your coats. Like, you can't bring out the biggest serious. Got a parka coat in November.

Suzie : Got a layer.

Mel: Nowhere to go.

Suzie : You got a layer yourself.

Mel: Got nowhere to go. Like in February, what you're gonna be wearing. Right. What you gonna be doing?

Suzie : Don't wear out your parka in October.

Mel: It's a bit like. Don't give a 13 year old a Louis Vuitton. Handbag?

Suzie : **** no.

Mel: Because where are they going? They're only, they nowhere to go. There'll be enough Chanel by the time they're 15. That's too much pacing. Pacing is important. Yeah.

Suzie : Anyways, I hope that made sense to anyone. It definitely made sense to me. Okay, if you guys have said I love you or you've had a love triangle or.

Mel: Yeah, we want to know. Maybe you know, well, you're freaked out.

Suzie : Freaked out?

Mel: Like, what if you like the guy or the girl?

Suzie : But then he just freaked you out.

Mel: And then he said, I love you. And you think, maybe I do, but I don't. This is all too soon. And then what happens?

Suzie : Anyways, let us know. Yeah, we'd love to hear from you.

Mel: We would have. Bye.

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