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Suzie : It is gorgeous out. Summer's arrived. God, everyone's horny. It feels great.

Mel: Are they? Is that what it is?

Suzie : Are you not? Yeah.

Mel: Come on. I think I'm the same as I'm always. That's hilarious.

Suzie : I was always horny. Exactly.

Mel: I'm always horny. So the sun makes you hornier?

Suzie : Like a hundred percent. Everyone is feral out there.

Mel: Really?

Suzie : Yeah, I feel it. Like, I work in the financial, in like, district in our. In Toronto. And, um. And it's just funny, like, you'll, like, all of the guys have their good jackets out now, and everyone just looks a lot hotter in the dresses and. Yeah, everyone's.

Mel: Oh, they're on the patios. But maybe the consumption of alcohol massively goes up because you're out.

Suzie : Such a good point.

Mel: Then you get the whole beer goggle situation and you end up in all sorts of situations.

Suzie : Huge beer goggle sect.

Mel: Yeah, yeah, yeah, I get it. And so I think definitely the summer. It's terrible because I said that to myself the other day. Right? Gotta stop. Like, let's not drink for a few days. And then you can't help it cause the sun's out and you're like, let's have a cocktail.

Suzie : That's never happened to me in my life. I literally. I can't. I used to take February off cause it was the shortest month or November. Cause it's like nothing was really happening in November.

Mel: But you didn't drink.

Suzie : Where I just, like, took the month off just to be like, I don't need to drink. I wanna prove to myself that I don't need this. And I haven't been able to do that for, like, two years.

Mel: Well, you know me. That's the problem. I can't do it.

Suzie : Yeah. Did it start with you? Now that's why I think it started with friends. God, **** you. Yeah. So anyways. So you're my problem. It's you. Anyways, we can get right and do it. So we have kind of a funny episode. We're gonna. If everyone, if you're on Reddit, typically, you would know the forum. Am I the *******?

Mel: Yes.

Suzie : A I t. A for the cool people in the group. And so Mel and I were just going down a rabbit hole with this, and we found some funny ones and we want to kind of discuss them. And if you guys have any sort of opinion on them, we'd love to hear from you guys too, but should I just get into it?

Mel: Go on, then.

Suzie : Okay, this one title is, am I the ******* for telling my friend we all hate her bf boyfriend. I, 31 year old female, have a close friend, a 28 female who I'll call Tina. Perfect. She's been dating her boyfriend, 33 male, who we'll call Matt for two years. Matt is generally an *******, flaky and inconsiderate. For example, not even getting Tina a present on her birthday because she had enough ****. Great guy. I know. Okay, so Matt is definitely an *******.

Mel: We agree.

Suzie : Okay.

Mel: Yeah.

Suzie : Anyways, moving on. Last week, Tina announced at dinner their engagement.

Mel: Oh, nice.

Suzie : I was horrified and talked to our other friends about it the next day. They all hated Matt, but loved Tina and didn't want to hurt her. So they told me not to say anything. Okay. I couldn't do it. A couple days ago, Tina and I had planned lunch. My ability to stay quiet grew thinner and thinner until she started talking about the wedding. And I couldn't take it anymore. This is where I might be the ******* I broke. Telling her marrying Matt was a mistake. He didn't care about her and didn't deserve her. She blew up at me, telling me, telling me I barely knew him, that she was the love of his life and he of hers, and that I was a terrible friend. I tried to explain that I was only telling her to save her from this marriage and not to hurt her. She said that just because I was jealous in quotations, I shouldn't ruin her special day. And I got mad. I told her it wasn't just me to find someone who actually likes him, that we all hate him, and stormed out.

Mel: Oh, great.

Suzie : Sounds like a great line.

Mel: Excellent. Yeah.

Suzie : She called our friend group and told them what I had said. I woke up yesterday morning to text from all of them saying I shouldn't have involved them or saying that in the first place, and I was an *******. It started to get to me. So am I the *******?

Mel: I think this is a little more complicated than that, isn't it? Because kind of, you sort of are. I understand why you did it, but really, like, we did an episode before about this, like a similar episode in the sense we were talking about, if your friend can't get a date, do you say something? But the main theme of what we said is you got to be really careful and you can't be cruel. You got to be kind. Now, in this situation, I can say that I have been in this situation where a friend knew it was going to end in disaster. I knew they were going to get divorced.

Suzie : You can generally tell they're going to get divorced.

Mel: You can tell.

Suzie : I mean, like, you can tell. Yeah, that's true.

Mel: And they have. This is several couples. And they did, but it's not your place unless you're asked. You can't say anything. You really can't. That person has to. You may detest the man or the woman. I don't think you can say. You think you should say something, don't you?

Suzie : I know you're. I'm giving a face, aren't I?

Mel: Yeah, I'm doing the face.

Suzie : This is my problem because I feel like I'm a lot like this girl who's telling the story. And if it is your close friend.

Mel: Yeah, but she's not going to. Don't you have.

Suzie : I know, but don't you have, like, some kind of a. If you've known her longer than the boyfriend she's with, don't you, like, have any kind of a say and being like, hey, you're a really good person. I know you. Maybe you're right. Being more careful as to what you're gonna say and, like, how you're gonna say it, but I think you should be allowed to have an opinion. No. Cause then if I were to divorce a ******* *******, like, if it were me, I would have been like, do you guys like him? Like, what was my problem? And then they were like, no, we all hated him. And it's like, well, why didn't you tell me that before?

Mel: Yeah, but that wouldn't have helped with it. If you're with somebody, you're often blinkered or you're in that relationship because you want a relationship, whatever the reason is, there are a myriad of reasons, and anybody saying any amount of anything is not gonna stop you from doing it. And you just then think they're an *******. I mean, it doesn't matter whether it's relationships. There's all sorts of situations in your life. You're like, you know, why didn't you say anything? Well, you wouldn't have listened to me. Yeah, you're right kind of thing. And then you look like an *******, and then this is what happens. Like, she's trying to do a good thing. But let's be fair. If this girl is wants to marry this boy, she probably likes him quite a lot.

Suzie : Yeah.

Mel: So you saying he's an *******, inevitably she's gonna say you're jealous or something like that. Yeah, I think it's very tricky. I mean, I certainly. I wouldn't say I've been specifically in this situation, but I've had or have friends where I don't love their partners. Like, I love them as friends, but their husbands or partners, I'm like, they're really either annoying, they're rude, they're whatever, and there's nothing you can do. Oh, my God. So generally, I know you either try and just see the girlfriend or you just put up with the man.

Suzie : Well, that's the thing. So, like, I've had.

Mel: It's often that way.

Suzie : I've had a friend who, like, I literally. I told them I didn't like him.

Mel: And then what happened?

Suzie : We're not friends anymore. But it's not really because of. I don't think it was because of that conversation. Like, he was being a ******* ******* and everyone was talking about it, and everyone kind of knew about it. All of our friend group, and we were a pretty tight friend group, and I was the only one who said anything. And I'm like, if you're gonna be with him, like, I don't want to be around you. Cause she became a different person too. And I'm like, this relationship just, like, isn't worth the pain that I feel when I'm around you and this guy. And also, just like, this is just. It's just a gross. And now they're married and they're gonna have a ******* baby. And I'm like. And I'm like. I'm just happy. I don't have to be fake because that's also, like, I hate being a fake person around my. What? It's supposed to be my friends.

Mel: I get that.

Suzie : I'm not gonna sit there and smile and ask you how he is, especially when you probably don't even want to talk about it because he's a ******* *******. And, like, so that's, I think, my thing. It's like, if you have a friend, it's like, is it worth it to keep that friendship?

Mel: Well, so the thing about your friend, is she friends with the other friends? Was she cut off or just from you?

Suzie : Just from me, really. We're not friends, but she doesn't see anyone from our friend group, really. Like, anytime we have something going on, like, we'll still invite her. Like, I personally, like, it's in our friend. Like, we have a group chat or whatever, and, like, we'll still invite her and she'll never come.

Mel: Okay.

Suzie : So it's not like it's like us. We're not, like, breaking off this relationship. And if I saw her today, I wouldn't be a ******* *****, you know? And, like, I'd say hi and we'd chat, but it's not like I'm, like, pursuing this friendly relationship with her because I'm like, I just don't like who you are anymore. It's not who I knew from, like, before.

Mel: Yeah.

Suzie : This is like, a different person.

Mel: I totally understand that. And I do think with friends, sometimes they have to be selective of you and you have to be selective of them because we only have a small amount of time outside of work and family and energy, and those friendships have to be good for you and good for them. Right. It has to be a sort of two way things. It's not like when you were younger and you had millions of friends and you go and see them all and, you know, it's a bit different the older you get. Yeah. I think this is difficult. If this woman, like, she's friend, they're all a friend group. Like, what the hell do you do? Yes.

Suzie : I mean, she's like, are you talking about this girl?

Mel: Yeah.

Suzie : Like, I don't know.

Mel: Because she can't win, can she? Because if the girl.

Suzie : Yeah.

Mel: Who's getting married has not asked anybody or not at any point intimated that she thinks he's an *******.

Suzie : Yeah.

Mel: Now, did she met. She said that she had a birthday and you didn't buy her a gift. Is that what you said?

Suzie : So one of the first things she.

Mel: Said, I'm sorry that you're a total ******* rude. Although I know lots of situations where men don't buy gifts. I don't live in that world, and my husband is not like that, and he knows better. But if she didn't say, oh, my God, he's an *******, I didn't give or say something. I mean, maybe she said, we don't know the ins and outs. You always need to know the ins and outs. Is that did. How do you know she didn't give him a gift? Is that because she mentioned it in a kind of sad.

Suzie : You mean he didn't give her a gift.

Mel: Sorry. Yeah, yeah, yeah. Does that. He didn't give her a gift. How do they know that? Is that because they were at a party? What did they say?

Suzie : No, he just. He. She just said that. What he said about it was that she had enough ****.

Mel: Yeah, he's an *******.

Suzie : He's a ******* *******. Like, if.

Mel: But that's her choice to be with a man like that. I mean, how many friends do you know who are with men and women? You're like, how? Why? Who? What? When? Why are you with this person? I don't understand. You're so much better.

Suzie : I know.

Mel: And I mean, men and women. But sometimes **** happens, and maybe. I don't know, maybe they see something we don't see.

Suzie : I don't know.

Mel: But I think it's tough. I mean, I do agree with you. If you have a friend who is with somebody who you cannot stand, we don't like, or whatever it is, I think you will inevitably see that person last. Cause you just. It's too much. Yeah, it's too much.

Suzie : I mean. Well, then here's the thing. Right now, she's, like, upset her entire friend group over this. Something that, like, when I did my thing, everyone was kind of like, not on my side, but they were like, we understand why you did it.

Mel: Right. It had got to a point where.

Suzie : Yeah, I'm not someone to not say anything, especially, but it got to the.

Mel: Point that it's blown up. And did this boyfriend or whatever say things to you, like, wasn't nice to you? Oh, there was a whole.

Suzie : Oh, yeah.

Mel: So that's a bit of a different thing.

Suzie : 100%.

Mel: That's like, if he's actually been an ******* to you. Yeah, then that's a whole different thing.

Suzie : I'm not about to keep my little mouth shut. It's not gonna happen.

Mel: But I do think that's a little different because it's been targeted at you. If he's just genuinely a **** then.

Suzie : To her, it's like, so her friends are now mad at her. So now if she actually still wants this relationship with this friend Tina and her other friends, she has to apologize to Tina. And being like, I'm sorry, I didn't mean it.

Mel: Yeah, but what if the other friends.

Suzie : I am jealous. Like, I don't know. What do you say? Yeah.

Mel: Which one's Tina? Tina's the one.

Suzie : Tina's the one getting married.

Mel: Right. So what if everyone sides with Tina or the girl?

Suzie : No, but they didn't, because they.

Mel: That's what I mean. But. Oh, yeah, I see what you mean. Well, I tell you one thing. I do think. I do think. I do agree with you on a level that if somebody is not good for somebody and they're gonna get married. And I also feel you kind of feel you have a duty to feel that you sort of said something or did something rather than send this poor person down a rabbit hole of hell to come out of. It is, I think you can, like, say things or ask them questions. Don't directly say, he is an *******, or whatever she said, or, I don't like him, or whatever. I think you can sort of open the conversation and ask questions and talk about. You have to be fairly skilled at this. And then you can get to a point where maybe they talk about this person's behavior.

Suzie : Yeah.

Mel: And then you can kind of ask more questions and then you can sort of say, yeah, you think that's normal? Like, what do you think about that? But you have to open up the conversation. I can think, because I have done this where I've been a little concerned. So rather than going, I think he's a controlling *******. I sort of. So how's so and so? And, you know, and so what? You know, what did you do last weekend? And, oh, your birthday? Did he get you, you know, just open. Start talking about him specifically or you. But not in a. You gotta be really careful to not be like, why are you asking me all these questions? You gotta be careful and get them to talk.

Suzie : Yeah.

Mel: That is the key, because then they.

Suzie : Probably have the answers anyways.

Mel: You have to stop talking. You have to ask questions, show lots of interest and get them to talk about their relationship. And then when they say things, if they say things and they go, oh, what do you think about that? And you're like, yeah, do you want me to ask you? Do you want the honest answer or do you want me to just answer? I always say that to people. I say, do you want my honest answer or just me to answer? Because you have to know, are people.

Suzie : Actually going to be like, I don't want your honest opinion if they're asking for it.

Mel: I think I have had that. Because I always say, people who know me, if you want the honest truth, I'm going to tell you that you may not like it. I'm going to tell you the honest truth.

Suzie : Yeah.

Mel: And again, I would ask you, I'd say, no, I don't want that. Thank you very much. But you have to get them talking. Yeah, for sure, but you can't. I think this girl got to a point where she's so frustrated, she kind of was like a bull in a china shop and went, you know, and then what is her friend gonna do? She's gonna get defensive.

Suzie : Yeah.

Mel: And say, of course she's gonna do that.

Suzie : You're *******. She's now getting married to the guy.

Mel: And then she looks like an ******* for getting married to her. So I think the only thing you can do is open up a conversation, have a nice chat, chatty chat. Get them to talk, ask, you know? You know, does that normally happen? You know, and then maybe get that person to kind of look at it and go, yeah, that's a good point. Kind of thing. I think that's all you can do. I don't think somebody who's getting married to somebody, if this worked, there wouldn't be so many divorces. There are divorces because people marry the wrong person. Yeah. And they will not listen. They will not listen. It's a bit like if you have a teenager, if you keep going on about something, sure as hell they're going to go down that way. So say the other thing. They'll do the thing you want. It's like reverse psychology. I think you have to use a bit of psychology on your friend, actually. What would you do or what? I said, I just get them to talk. I wouldn't say he's a ****. Even if I thought he was a grandee ****, I wouldn't say it. And I have had many instances of your spidey senses or something off about this guy. I can think of one guy I knew once, and I remember this is somebody I'm not, I don't really know very well anymore. But I told Max, I said, there's something wrong about this woman's husband. I don't know what it is. It gives me the creeps. Not like being lecture touching. No, he just. His whole demeanor and vibe. He is an *******. And he gives me the creeps. And years later, something horrendous happened. He was involved in something and just horrible stories. Anyway, I don't want to get into, but it was so awful. And I was like, oh, my God, I was right.

Suzie : Yeah, yeah.

Mel: But she was married to this guy. What are you gonna do? And then it was weird, actually, on the subject of this, about, I'd say about sort of six months or maybe a year into knowing this woman and feeling this about her husband. We had a mutual friend who I'd known for a lot longer, but she'd known this girl for a lot longer. And all of a sudden, randomly, we're having a few too many glasses of wine. Ends up with that, and she tells me, I can't stand him. I'm like, I can't stand you. Can't say, why can't you? And she'd known this guy for years.

Suzie : Wow.

Mel: And never said anything. And I don't know. What do you do? I mean, if you go around being honest about everyone.

Suzie : I have a pretty high tolerance for ******** and bullshit. But, like, it's like, when they're, like, an ultra or, like, there is just some bad vibe that you get from something, that's when it's just so hard to cause that energy intrudes into your body. And you are for just me as personally, I'm just not myself. And I'm like, I ******* hate this guy.

Mel: Yeah, or girl. Yeah. But if it was directed at you, I would probably be like, you. I would absolutely say something.

Suzie : I'm like, I'm not gonna.

Mel: And I would say, yeah, like, you.

Suzie : Can be treated however the **** you want to be by him. He's not gonna ******* treat me or any of these other girlfriends like, what?

Mel: You're agree? I agree with that 100% bullshit. And I definitely have had situations where I've said things. I remember one time years ago, and this guy I knew, and I knew him, and I know him and I know her. And he was saying how this is before when we. I just got married. They just got married. And they were like, when his wife has a baby, he's gonna give her an allowance. I said, excuse me, excuse me. And I just called. I mean, I know well enough to say, like, are you serious? She's having a ******* baby. That's not an allowance. Like, it's a ******* job, believe me. But, you know, I would say stuff in any kind of situation, but I guess it depends how well you know the person. Anyway, all the way to go round, totally going off topic as usual is that I think this woman, I wouldn't say ******* is the right word for her. She is a concerned friend who probably finds it hard to keep her mouth shut.

Suzie : Yeah.

Mel: And she should have kept her mouth shut. So my advice would be, if something. If you cannot have a conversation, like I said, to draw it out, you shouldn't have gone for lunch, because there's no way you're gonna go for lunch, have a chat, and then you're gonna have, you know, you have to say something. Well, then don't go for lunch or have a conversation. Have a conversation. Bring them out of their shell. See if they'll talk about it. But I think that's about all you can do. Somebody's getting married, they're gonna make the mistake. People have to wear, make mistakes. And this is gonna sound like, oh, granny Mel. But I would say generally in life, the place, the things that I've either failed at or made a mistake is the things I've learned the most from. Because that's life, isn't it? You learn from failure. You don't learn very much from success, which is a horrible thing, but you don't. So when you have a failed relationship or a failed marriage or failed, you actually go, okay. I mean, it's horrible, but I don't want any of those things. How do you stop somebody from doing that?

Suzie : You can't.

Mel: You have to learn mistake. Yeah. And is it actually the right thing? Because obviously you don't want somebody to get divorced. That's really very traumatic. But who knows where that leads? Somebody, you just don't know, do you? Got to be really careful. I think the only time, personally, if somebody, I think I don't like them, or I think they're an *******. I think you should definitely try and have a conversation with that directly saying they're an *******.

Suzie : Right.

Mel: The only time I would personally, absolutely get involved with a friend is if he was physical.

Suzie : Yeah.

Mel: Then I would. I don't care. I am steaming in there and I'm getting involved.

Suzie : Yeah. And you are getting more out of.

Mel: That 100% and figuring out what to do.

Suzie : But that's so hard when it's, like, emotional abuse. Not saying that that's what's happening here, but, like, there is still like that with, like, emotional abuse, which can be, oh, it's very commonly as painful as physical abuse. And so when do you step in when there's that versus.

Mel: I'm not sure. I mean, it's so common. It's so common. And, you know, I know so many friends of mine who will take comments from their partners, and men, too. Men will take comment. I'm just like, what? Like, saying in front of people that you're fat or you're this or you're not good enough, and you're just like. You're standing there, and if I hear that said in front of me, I actually say something. I actually pull the person up.

Suzie : You do?

Mel: 100%.

Suzie : What do you say?

Mel: That's not cool.

Suzie : Wow.

Mel: I just say it's not cool. You can't say that about somebody, and you shouldn't. Definitely should not. It's happened to me several times, and I've pulled up men and women on it. I said, you can't say that about your partner in front of me. If you want to go and say that behind closed doors, I don't think it's cool. But you. You shouldn't say it. It's not nice. But generally, I know the people really well. Yeah. But I will pull them up on it. Yeah, sure. And I have done. And anybody who knows, we can attest to that. And they can attack me and say, she's ***** for doing that. She's no *****, but I will pull up and partic now where that mics wants to go. But definitely, particularly men saying something about women's physical appearance in front of other people. Yeah. Derogatory. And men saying stuff about their wife, like, they don't do this, that, and the other. Like, let's. No, we're not having this conversation in front of me. That's, you know, that's not cool, is it? No criticizing women. Sorry. Criticizing men like they're not doing enough or they're not this or they're not. It's not nice. It's not the place for it.

Suzie : Yeah. So it's hard. I mean, I don't really honestly know what the answer is for this girl. I think if you love your friend and you care about your friend and you do want to go to the wedding, you do have to apologize, and you have to buy her flowers or a nice engagement gift of some sort, and you ******* really apologize, and you have to apologize to all your friends, too, which sucks. And I hate apologizing, too, because that's really hard to admit that you maybe.

Mel: Done something wrong, you've overstepped, and you're gonna have to find a way and eat some humble pie. You don't have to say you don't like this guy all of a sudden. No, but you are gonna have to say, I've overstepped. I accept this is who you've chosen. Yeah. And I don't know, you think about maybe it's not exactly who I would choose, but this is your life.

Suzie : Yeah.

Mel: And I give you, I wish you the best. And that's all you can do if they haven't asked you.

Suzie : Yeah.

Mel: So you can do very hard. It's very hard. We can see the mistake happening in front of your eyes.

Suzie : I know. And so people on Reddit also, what did they say? Well, they voted that she was the.

Mel: *******, so, yeah, I just. I just wouldn't call her an *******. I think that's a bit unfair.

Suzie : I know.

Mel: She's a good friend. She's just might have figured another way of doing it.

Suzie : It's really tough. Yeah. I mean, so, like, there's a comment here saying you can hate Matt. You overstepped when you involved the group. Now everyone gets to be mad at you instead of Matt, which is who's the real issue.

Mel: Oh, I see.

Suzie : That's what someone said.

Mel: But you know what? Yeah, I guess she involved all the friends, but I'm sure she didn't do it intentionally. Intentionally. She just got, you know, when you get all het up and all that upset and she's like, well, everyone else thinks that, too. You know, you can't help yourself. But I suppose the lesson you learn with age, and I know this is very boring and annoying. No, the lesson you learn with age is to, like, never send an email when you're angry. Never call somebody when you're angry.

Suzie : Oh, my God. If I've learned that the ******* hardest.

Mel: Horrible texts or horrible emails, just sit on it, write it out. Never. I've done this myself. Never. So on the subject of emails, you know, you put the email, don't do reply, make sure there's no. Because I know somebody who did that who, like, they were so angry and it was a family thing and they wrote this email, and so, and so is a ******* *******, blah, blah, blah. And men didn't realize, and they thought they were replying to another family member and they replied to guy who's an *******, and it has never resolved itself, so be very, very careful. So, you know, but you learn from your mistakes. So to this woman, I would say, you know, learn a lesson.

Suzie : Yeah. I mean, it's really, really tough.

Mel: No. What did they say? No good deed goes unpunished. So. Which is true.

Suzie : Yes.

Mel: You're trying to do a good thing here, and you're being punished for it. So remember that. I mean, learn something from it.

Suzie : Someone else says, screw all these other people. Saying that you're the *******. You're worried about your friend and said something about it. Mentioning the friends was a mistake, but they should have fessed up to. If something happens to her, at least you'll know you tried to warn her when no one else would. Even if they freeze you out, you'll hear what happens eventually. That's what someone else said.

Mel: So it might take 25 years.

Suzie : Well, that's the thing, right? So it's like, if you want to be this friend, this girl's friend, if you want to be Tina's friend, you just say, **** Matt, and still be Tina's friend. But if you're like, this relationship isn't worth me having to deal with this guy, then you have to let the friendship go.

Mel: I agree. I hundred percent agree with you. Suzy Keish now.

Suzie : Okay.

Mel: Everything's falling apart. The plants eating me. Yeah. Anyway, that's it.

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Mel: Sounds good.

Suzie : Send us feet pics. We won't look at them.

Mel: No, I send them. No, I don't. I don't want other people's feet pics. I want to be paid money for my feet. I think that's a fantastic way to make money. I love it. I just want to do that.

Suzie : Find Mellon. Find her now.

Mel: I might be on there soon, actually. I'm going to spend the summer. That's going to be my project. Getting on foot finder.

Suzie : She does have gorgeous toes.

Mel: I really don't.

Suzie : I mean, there's someone out there who would love them.

Mel: There's somebody. I've got arthritis in both my toes. So somebody's going to. They're going to get in. It's a kink.

Suzie : It's a kink. It's got to be.

Mel: It's got to be an arthritis kink.

Suzie : Oh, my God.

Mel: I love to look into that.

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